More to come as I can get things digitized.
AFN
DCC
Vidalia, GA 12 April 2009
A Genealogy of the Clinton-Wolfe, Tuten and related families: Leaving easier trails for future generations of my family to follow to our ancestors.
More to come as I can get things digitized.
AFN
DCC
Vidalia, GA 12 April 2009
got to die & leave his family. I have had to go ^through[carroted in] with another sad occasion ^lately[carroted in] [.] poor Gordons[sic] remains was burried[sic] here yester-day two weeks ago, we had reg-ular funeral services in the church & it was awfully sad to me but I feel lots better[.] satisfied to know he is burried here at home in our own cemetery & I can visit his grave & plant flowers on it[.] we have a new one started here only about eight or nine graves there. The Government wrote to ^us[carroted in] about two months ago to know if we wanted his body brought home & we decided we would have it brought. you[sic] asked me about Hemans[sic] neck. well
The location of the 'new' cemetery. Now called Rose Dhu Cemetery where Ida Benton Lester, her husband E.E. Ponder, Ruth Ponder Cates (their daughter), Heman Cates (her husband) and Gordon Ponder (all mentioned in this letter) are now buried as well. Scary what you can do w/ technology these days.
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I will tell you just how it started. A while after last Christmas a bump commenced growing kinder on the side of his neck it was under the skin[.] it looked just like a wenn[?] just a bumg under the skin he went on & did’t pay much attention to it but in March it commence forming & hurting so bad he went to the hospital in Augusta & had it taken out & the place all cured up nicely but it wasnt long before a notti-er bump came on his neck and far from where the other one was. So he decided he would go to a specialist in
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He went & he told him it was a cancer of the worst type & advised him to go to John[sic]
Written on wide-ruled paper, narrow, typical stationary. Yellowed with age in 2007 when I found the letter attached to a card board album page with paste, which resulted in the damage to the eleventh and twelfth pages.
Letter:
Nov. 13th, 1920
Dearest Sister,
Your letter was read about two weeks ago and you know I am always glad to hear from you, will not wait so long to answer this time as I want to tell ^you [carroted in] about Heman we went to see him Tuesday & I really dont[sic] believe the poor fellow can live more than two or three weeks longer. We go to see him every week & he is poorer & weaker every time we go he is getting so weak now he cant hardly talk he is pittyful[sic] to look at
& dont[sic] seem to realize his condition he talks now about getting well, he dont [sic] retain a thing he eats all comes back back in a little while after he eats. Ruth says she dont know how he has held up as long as he has had been in the bed now 11 weeks and not a soul has waited on him but her[.] it is remarkable how she has kept up[.] She is looking well[.] Heman says she is a good nurse & he didnt[sic] want any body[sic] to wait on him but her[.] I have offered to stay & help her but it[‘]s this way[.] She has two men boarders & hasnt an extra place for any one to sleep says she is obliged to keep them for they are feeding her family[.]
it is a sad affair words cant express my sympathy for them[.] Heman has always been so devoted to his family[.] I’ve always though if he should be taken from them that Ruth couldnt stand it but I think she is becoming rec-onciled now she knows that he cant[sic] live, he is living on morphine now[.] the Dr learned Ruth how to puncture him he suffers so with his stomach he just has to have it, it almost breaks my heart to know he has . . .